Hi Guys
It's your friendly neighbourhood NLP coach
just wanted to let you in on this
Truly this is GOLD!!
So I have come up with an quick and easy to use system called
“Back to Basics”or B2B Plan
The idea is you have a baseline level of happiness, health and growth.
For a while it is stable and you are happy. Notice what you are doing in your life or remember the happiest times of your life and jot them down. Establish the happiness baseline.
Life then bowls a challenge at you.
Something else happens
The negative chat starts and uh oh!
You dip below that level.
and the skittles are knocked over.
How do you get back up
and on the road to happiness in the blink of an eye.
This is how I do it and I feel it will work for you too.
This is VERY IMPORTANT when its all going pear shaped and you don't feel good
you must ..
STOP
REST,
RECHARGE,
ACCEPT
LISTEN,
ASK FOR HELP - (this can be your B2B plan)
then ACT
If you are feeling angry or upset or depressed, hurt whatever, get it out of your head and onto paper
Write honestly and quickly. I mean really fast, as fast as the thoughts arrive. You'll know if you are doing it right
because you will find it hard to keep up and will be out of breath and the writing willbe almost illegible.
Once all the crap has left your mind you are now ready to use Your Back to Basics plan . Keep writing until positive stuff comes out and you notice hmm thats a good idea or inspiring stuff appears. Congratulations you have changed your state massively by doing this.
Heres how to create your Back to Basics Plan.
There are 3 categories I believe exist in everybody's life,
they are
MIND, BODY & SOUL
Heck it's my company slogan I love it so much.
So I made a list of all the things that INSPIRE
My MIND
Then I made list of all the things that ENERGISE
My Body
And lastly all the things that REFRESH
My SOUL
So make list of 10 things in each. More if you wish.
Go ahead write them down.
So ask yourself what will it take to give me more ….
What truly makes me happy or would make me happy in each of these 3 areas..
Let me give you an example
For me it was
MIND
Inspiring audio programs.
Read a good book
Teach or mentor someone
BODY
Go for a run
Sleep well
Eat more Veg
SOUL
Be more sociable
Go to church
Give a charity donation
Write a poem
Spend time with family
That’s just to get you started
So you need to get a list of values and actions
and results so that next time you are below par
you can spring right back up by FOCUSSING on the area that’s in lack.
HINT they are all connected so there may be some overlap
Have fun with this!
Be open and trust your Unconscious Mind to give you the answers.
Now Write them out
And decorate them and make it attractive to you.
Label it along the lines of "Back to Basics"
The recipe to ..”How I can feel great anytime”
Put it in a prominent place. You could even laminate it and put it in your wallet or purse.
Next time life gets on top of you pull it out, scan it and choose one of the activities.
You will be right as rain in no time.
After a while you will train your mind to automatically do this.
It's powerful stuff
In the words of Jim Rohn
Let’s do this!
Love to hear your feedback guys!!
contact me here trevor@innerzest.co.uk
Trevor Aird
NLP Coach and Trainer
www.innerzest.co.uk
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